divorcedlondon

Hello again and welcome to another instalment of “discreetlondon answers!”. I had some time over the weekend to catch up on my emails and prepare this latest update for you all.

I’ve got some more good questions this time with hopefully some equally good answers.

Let’s get straight in with the Q&A!
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Dear discreet,

Love your blogs but I want to know what happened to your dog.

You mentioned her a lot in your first blog, but she seems to have disappeared. Where is your dog?

Bestest,
A big fan
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Dear big fan,

Thank you for your question about my dog and you are right, she did disappear!

Just before my wife gave birth to the baby, she moved in with her parents temporarily and she took the dog with her. When she returned to our old house with the baby, she decided it was too much to have the dog with her as well, so she left her with her parents. That’s where she’s been ever since.

I miss my dog a lot, though I guess she’s not my dog any more. I did think about trying to get her back, but living in a block of flats in central London, wouldn’t make keeping a dog ideal. Plus with working full time and having a social life, I wouldn’t be home enough to spend time with her.

As much as I dislike my ex-in-laws, they’re retired and home all the time. They live in the countryside in Wiltshire, which is a much nicer place for my dog to be, so I really can’t complain too much.

Thanks for your question! Keep enjoying my blog!

All the best,
discreetlondon
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Hello DL,

I really enjoy reading your blogs, you truly are an example for all married men to follow! I don’t need advice as such, but there’s something I would like to know.

Why do you have 2 blogs? Why did you stop the first one? Why didn’t you just keep writing in it?

Sometimes I check the first one, just to make sure you haven’t started it again!

Sincerely,
A curious fan
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Hello curious fan!

What a great question, though to be honest, I thought I explained this when I finished the last blog. Here we go:

My last blog was called “the secret internet diary of an unfaithful husband”. Since I’m really no longer married anywhere except on paper, I didn’t really think that it made sense to call myself an “unfaithful husband” any more. Plus, it ended right around the time I wasn’t easily able to access the internet, so it just made sense.

I started this blog because I felt like people were missing me and wanted to know what happened next.

I called it “divorcedlondon” because quite frankly, I thought I was going to be divorced last August and it’s only because of the complications with the baby that my wife hasn’t filed for the “decree absolute”, so this hasn’t exactly worked out the way I planned it.

What in life ever does?

By then, I was locked into the name, so I’ve stuck with it. And don’t worry, I haven’t made any new entries on my blog in months and months and have no plans on doing so either. The blog you are reading right now is my current, ongoing blog and I have no plans to stop anytime soon!

And once I get my wife to file for the final bit of our divorce, then the name of this one will finally make sense!

Thanks again for your question!

All the best,
discreetlondon
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Hey DL,

Could you send me the address to that new website you’re raving about? Or better yet, post it on your site!

I’m in London too and could do with knowing more about it!

Thanks!
Everyone!
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Hello “everyone”,

Thanks for asking about this new website I’ve been using. It really is as good as I have described!

I’m happy to email anyone who asks with the website details, but I’m not willing to post a link on my blog. Not yet, anyway!

Why?

Simple, I am in the process of approaching the website to pay to advertise on my blog. It only makes sense that if I’m going to be putting business their way, they should pay me for the privilege!

I’m going to offer them the chance to be the exclusive sponsors of this blog! They’d be crazy not to leap at the chance!

I’ve already emailed them once, but they haven’t replied yet. I’ll leave it a little while before contacting them again, but I think it makes great sense!

So keep your eyes out for what could be my first ever paid for link!

All the best,
discreetlondon
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Dear discreet,

Posts need to be more regular on here to keep the readers interested. Doesnt sound like you are so busy that you couldnt give this blog 10 or 15 mins every day for a quick update. People lose interest when you dont post ???

Missing you!

A reader
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Hello A reader,

Thank you for your question. You’re not the first to point out the rather lengthy gaps between my posts and I’m sure you won’t be the last!

I try to post about once a week, but I don’t keep to any set schedule. My normal posts are quite long and do take considerable time to write. I’ve tried to maintain a standard of quality and consistency, as well as frequency, as best I can. I’m sorry if it is not enough for you!

I do have a life you know, and a job. Granted I’m frequently not that busy at work, but I can’t always focus my attention on writing. I wouldn’t want to do shorter posts, more often, it’s just not my the discreetlondon style!

Thanks again for your note and I hope you keep enjoying my blog!

All the best,
discreetlondon
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Dear DL,
I put “discreetlondon” into Google to find your site and I discovered 2 website that talk about you.

The first is from a woman in Manila who wrote a long analysis all about you and your blogs! Here’s the link: Link One

And the second one is really weird, but rather than even try to explain it, maybe you should just see it for yourself. Here’s the link: Link Two.

The second one scared me a little, hope it doesn’t upset you too!

Really love reading your blogs, never stop!

Regards,
a long time fan
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Dear long time fan,

Thank you very much for your email and for those 2 links. I hadn’t seen them before, so I guess you could say I read them both with great interest.

That woman in Manila certainly seems upset by me and everything I stand for, but even more, if you read between the lines, she has absolutely no trust for her own boyfriend. All my blogs have done is bring out her fears even more!

When she says that she’s involved in every part of his life, she is really just trying to fool herself. If her man wants to cheat on her badly enough, he’ll find a way and he won’t get caught!

From what little I know about the Philippines, there are bargirls aplenty, so finding someone willing is probably just as easy and buying a cold bottle of beer. I bet the price is around the same for both as well! All her man would need is a spare ten minutes and a spare ten Manila-pounds and he could probably get the two-girl special!

That second link you sent is far more disturbing. He seems like a right psycho, with a rather unhealthy interest in me.

I suppose as my popularity grows, it only makes sense that I’m attracting some weirdo’s and kooks.

What it says to me is that I really need to be extra careful now, more so than ever and I can never, ever reveal my real-life identity. Even if I make a gazillion pounds from my story, I’ll always need to remain anonymous.

Just imagine if that nutter came looking for me! He seems like he could be a tad dangerous! Look at all the details he’s got about me already! It’s frightening!

At least I haven’t said enough about myself for anyone to ever track me down! People have tried, but I’m just too clever for them!

Thanks for pointing those sites out to me; I really appreciate it. And if you or anyone else stumbles upon any other mentions of my blogs, please send them my way!

All the best,
discreetlondon
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You might have noticed that this most recent edition of “discreetlondon answers!” didn’t have any emails from anyone looking for advice on personal problems. There’s a reason for this.

One of my regular contributors to this section had one of my personal replies to her discovered by her husband and this brought a whirlwind of grief down upon my fan.

I’ve been quite upset about this. I’m supposed to solve people’s problems here, not create new ones for them. I’m wondering if I really should be getting involved with other people’s lives.
It’s really easy for me to sit here and tell people how to discreetly commit infidelity and to be honest; I enjoy it. Helping other people get away with it is almost as good as getting away with it myself. Without the sex, obviously.

I have a talent, a knack for this sort of thing and I thought it was my duty; my responsibility to share it with the world. It was never my intention to cause anyone any sort of pain.

To be honest, I don’t know what to do.

I would love to keep answering your emails, but I’m not sure if I should. I’m going to give it some thought, so in the meantime, feel free to continue with your submissions. Whether I use them here or not, I promise you a personal reply!

This time, I’ve played it safe with the letters, we’ll see how I feel when the time comes to update this section again!

Thanks for your understanding!

All the best,
discreetlondon
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